I am assuming that this writing will focus on assumption,
which we use to live life, and we say for the same as ‘We perceive life like that!’
and then again we say ‘My beliefs are like that!’. I would like to say here, logically, if we prove it - all the above statements sounds sometimes the same!
Life starts with an assumption; parents assume or believe
that the child they are going to have is a boy / girl. So this assumption, or positive perception is the one, which starts a life in flesh. When we born based on this assumption, the same is embedded in our
life! It is like living life with an invisible tag attached (Tag might says - You got an assumed life!).
Ok, we got life,
now what?
Again we attached to our parents up to certain age, till we get our self-thinking power. by this time our parents would have already made some more assumptions, thinking my
kid will have a good health, he/she will talk quickly, normally, like other kids do etc (end
of thinking capacity !). Some kids might succeed in bringing the expected result and
some are not. Those kids life, who are in later category, if not started as assumed, have to go
through life rather harshly which imprints an image in their mind - we are not normal
in this world. This is due to their perception about their own behavior which turns into strong belief
and again they assume that they are not as normal as expected!
Fine, somehow we
grownup, got some self-thinking power, let’s see this world now!
In today’s world, if both parents works and nobody at home
to take care; these kids see a day-care-jail with other similar kids. Ok let’s not
talk about this now, will move on. Hmm, first day to kinder school (in modern
civilized family, they call it Pre-school / Montessori !), holding parent in one
hand and Chaco / Candy in another, water in both eyes, what you think the kid
assumes, difficult to say but after few days it gets used to it and assumes it’s
my life now.
Stop, I am not kid anymore, I am grownup
to be called as child, what is my next assumption? [This statement can be questioned as in today’s
world we bring child (starts to think the day it born) directly not kid (filled
with innocence) anymore]
I will go to a good school! This happens if that kid’s family
belongs to a good line in society, but if BPL then that child will be in
public school, or in a school which never demands any fee, books, time,
homework, tests, exams, marks, and parents’ signature…that is Life on road! Few children starts
there life after their school education (modern illiteracy) and others learn life’s
education (cannot be taught in schools) just by living in this world - working,
observing, seeing. This changes their beliefs, assumptions, perceptions, expectations
of life and from this world.
Yes, I got
certified to get job, and started to perceive the same in a positive mood to
get a good job with this non-expiry dated paper! What you think my expectation
could be?
We all right, the adolescent grownup person now believe that
he/she will get a good secured highly paid job, to settle down in life. To get this fulfilled, the person has to go through a tough and blind competition. If
you have other attributes (you know what I am talking here!) your assumption will
get stronger and you may succeed in getting what you expected.
Done, all I expect
only few other things in my life now – a good house, a SUV (both I might get by selling
myself also - dowry!!) good spouse and good children a healthy peaceful long life.
These expectations depends on lot of assumed attributes,
which we invented for life or somebody invented for their life – Horoscope, Pandit
Maharaj (who knows how to calculate/match-mis-match), Marriage, Vastu.
So that’s it! We got all what we expected, anything else?
Yes, last but least one too, I want to have a peaceful no
pain end to my life (why because I already had a lot opposite of this in my assumed life!).
Do you agree now?, we started with an assumption and ending with an expectation,
can we say this expectation is also as an assumption.
Bottom line:
You
agree or "agree to disagree", this Circle of life has its own - Assumption..Perception..Beliefs..Expectation!!